Wednesday, January 05, 2011

Heri ya Krimasi na mwaka mpya!

Happy New Year friends. It's been quite a year. We got married. My brother got married. We moved into a real house. I started a new job 2 days ago. And I'm feeling super thankful for it all. One thing I'm most thankful for is our great friends and nextdoor neighbors' successful adoption of this precious one, Zara Grace. Radiant she is. Zac is here saving her body outline for posterity with street chalk. How she's grown already...
Mary says Happy 2011 with a fresh glass o carrot juisi. Cheers!I'll close w/ a fun pic from our Christmas day. One of our neighborhood guys came over that morning to ask Hunter to help him tie his tie for Christmas service. I guess he doesn't wear them much :) More hilarious is his pilot-style shirt. Lots of pilots live around us as we're very close to the Arusha domestic airport. I'm sure that's how he landed [pun intended] this sweet one

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Our wedding rocked

http://vimeo.com/16064003 [our wedding slideshow by photographer Ian Riley]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N99LsSAqImw [Thanks to Uncle Rob for filming this one]

http://www.vimeo.com/16154751 [Cheers to Sterling for this slideshow. The Man]

More coming...

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Lisa and Byro's 28th anniversary of marriage

Hunter's recreating the pillows of 236 Hurumzi in Stonetown for this lovely gang...Celebrating over the Olasiti korongo...
Introducing the newest member of their family...
Needless to say, this little creature makes Hunter and I want a dog. Badly. We also want as solid a marriage and family. May I add, I hope we have as lovely offspring, inside and out. Ha. That sounds funny, but I mean it. The Bordens give us so much to look up to, to strive for in our life ahead as husband and wife, mother and father, sister and brother to so many...

Monday, August 09, 2010

this doesn't happen everyday...

Hunter and I enjoying a goat roast with some friends, Life Skills teachers from PHS
A co-worker from PHS, Elaina, and my bro Angelo, the party chairman
Another thing which doesn't happen every day is engagement parties - not too common in our neck of the woods. Our first hosted in Atown from afar by a family friend in Atlanta:
Hannah, Zac, Lisa and Jesse (a good substitute for his Daddy-O)
Tammy and Peter Russell
Ian and Ciska Haynes, our infamous South African invitees - Ciska's Visa fresh in!
Eo!
Double Eo!!
That last shot is just totally inappropriate, Zac. I'm proud to say he's my new drum teacher.

Thursday, August 05, 2010

I'm unemployed!

On my very first day of being unemployed, I received the following email from my dearest darling sibling King Cc'ing all of my future in-laws:

Michelle (his fiance) brought up a bunch of mail that has been forwarded to her house while I am in New York this summer. I have a very interesting picture of Tait driving my car through montgomery county, maryland during her most recent trip home. 44 mph in a 30. If anyone would like a wallet sized copy of the picture, the police department kindly sent 4 with the ticket. At least I don't have to worry about finding a wedding present now!

Thank you brother.

Monday, July 19, 2010

MIA

I admit it fully: I've been MIA. I don't know why but my writing/creative juices have run dry. Or maybe it's free time that's run a bit short. Leaving my job at Peace House, transitioning to a new home, preparing to start a new job as well as the biggest chunk: preparing to get married back in the US have kept me in a permanent state of whirlwind. Whew. I hope soon I'll be able to write about all this; for now, I'd like to leave those of you who still check my blog for some reason with my/our new mailing address:

Tait (and soon to be Hunter Flint)
PO Box 12246
Arusha
TANZANIA

Karibuni sana kututembelea (Come and visit us in) Arusha. Yes, Hunter and I will be moving back here to TZ upon uniting under God with best friends and family at my most favorite place, Camp Merrie-Woode.

"We cannot become what we want to be by remaining who or what we are."
-Max Dupree
2 of our wedding consultants, Hank (on band, dance, song list) and Christy (on a whooooole lot) in Merrie-Woode Dining Hall

Thursday, April 08, 2010

Hunter's b-day and Easter holiday

Dreamlike skies and sunsets up at Simba Farm on the slopes of West Kili have brought respite and change of scenery...



Hunter's birthday partay back on the 25th. He played and sang. We watched. We ate cake.

A new project for my water tank - in fact, my Christmas gifti from Hunter; plans are to adorn and bring life to this tank with bamboo a la Peterson


Yep - it's what you think: snakes in my bathtub. Adventure has taken on a whole new meaning in my house. Not only did I discover these 2 coming out from under my tub, but there was another little guy found later under my bed! Nightmare much?! A local family that's been here forever recommends putting screens in our drains. I say. Jason of Peace Corps Kinikele days has still got me beat with 2 cobras found under his bed. I've been told these are just house snakes. I hope so.

I'm sorry to have been so quiet on the blog of late. I've had loads of wageni (guests) on campus to host and lots going on outside of work stretching and growing me. The theme of my last few weeks has been: becoming and self-improvement, so I'll end with these...

"We cannot become what we want to be by remaining who or what we are" - Max DePree

"i want to be a gentle presence
like you
the way your touch is cooling

or maybe warming
like when the sun is new
and young

let my footsteps fall softly here
and may they say
yes, i know her
she comes from
where truth dwells"

-lisa borden (letsputthekettleon.blogspot.com)

To becoming...

Tuesday, March 09, 2010

Aren't my friends' kids adoooooorable?


Hallie and Steve's new babe, Bradley
Hil and Croft's new babe, Elsa a.ka. Big yawn or Sugarlips. Don't you think she yawns just like Hilary?
Elizabeth and Logan's new 'toto, Reid a.k.a. RAW or Bubs. His parents just seemed to have told him they're leaving to climb Kili again..with him.

Friday, February 12, 2010

2010 whoa

Here it is February 12th, 2010 and I'm nestling into what feels like my first quiet, free moment without distraction since the New Year bell rung. Where have the days gone? The last time I blogged was November with nostalgia and love for my old village. Three months have passed since then; in that time, I wrapped up my first school year of work here at Peace House Secondary, I spent nearly a month back in the US for Christmas break, we all crossed over into a new decade and am now at Peace House starting another school year with 115 new Form 1 students. Whoa.

It's nice to take a break and a deep breath.

The last few months have been wonderful and strange and joyful and sad. Yet again the roller coaster that is life...



We closed school last December having just discovered our first student pregnancy here at PHS; she was subsequently expelled as is TZ policy. Back home over Christmas, my family hung out with Hunter's family in our favorite place, the Western North Carolina mountains. We traveled the BVI's serenely on a catamaran. Hunter got robbed on our first day back in Arusha. My house girl was diagnosed with cancer our first weekend back. My brother got engaged a week later and will be married this Fall to a sweet girl named Michelle. My Dad turned 67 yesterday. The same day, one of my best friends gave birth to her first child: a beautiful, healthy baby girl named Elsa. I had my favorite life skills class yet with our Form 3 girls on managing emotions. The class ended with singing and dancing and sheer silliness. That's when you know you've taught a good class, making your students feel safe, cared for and free.

*With our new Life Skills team*

I'm supposed to be in Stonetown for the Sauti ya Busara Music Fest this weekend, something I've not missed since coming to TZ in 2005, but I opted to stick around instead. I just didn't feel right splurging when my housegirl and friend Mary's cancer status is unknown. We hope to receive the biopsy results next Wednesday. Amazing to find out there is only one hospital in all of Tanzania treating cancer. Apparently, the TZ government covers the care and implementation, but the actual radiation is up to the patient to purchase. A little different from home eh?! We are praying all the cancer is gone completely, and that a trip to Ocean Road Hospital in Dar is not in the cards for gangsta wetu, Mary. It makes me sick to my stomach that all that time I was home, reuniting with family and friends, eating and drinking, hiking and sailing, enjoying fireworks and fireplaces, Mary was suffering, staying with her pastor undergoing intense maombi or prayers, taking village potions, sweating at night, losing hope by the day as her growth grew bigger and bigger.

My momma always said: life isn't fair. She was right. But we can try to make it a little more fair for a few.

Sunday, December 06, 2009

Travels back to my old stomping grounds

Manga, not "the Peach State," but a land of peaches nonetheless...

Bibi yangu wa Manga, Mama Claud

Babu yangu wa Manga, Kowzen

My old neighbors, Joyce's family. One of my favorites in Manga

Mtitu "Black" and Joseph Nyenzi

Mtitu "Black" and Fabian being silly

The finished Mahongole Girls Dorm

Manga students showing off their new digs

Girls enjoying their new sleeping and study quarters

Oliva and Lillian, two of my students from CHASAWAYA Vocational Center for girls



Makambako's heroes...aka the Posta ladies. Nani ni shujaaaaaa?!

Thursday, October 08, 2009

Happenings


Our students playing water polo for the first time in ISM's pool. ISM, the same International School that hosted us for Track & Field last month (more later on that), also invited us yesterday for an afternoon of swimming/water polo in the shallow end, ultimate frisbee and dodgeball. All 30 of our students selected to go had perma-grins. Water polo in the shallow end was the perfect way to reduce real fears amongst our students of water and of swimming. It's like football in the water, their teachers explained. Yes, just like football....only a little different.

Angelo and I, the fearless Social Workers, not afraid to jump in the pool too.

Kalolo playing dodgeball, a new game for him.

Shawna, the coordinator at ISM, and I, relieved that the first of four events went swimmingly. We hope to come once a quarter for activities like this, to use their facilities until we can build our own over the next several years.

Our accomplished teachers, boasting their certificates after our recent Teacher Training over September break. Elimu oyay! Thanks Dr. Marty.

Peace House students at their very first Track & Field event. It was a momentous day. Lots of students placed in the top three for their event, kids who had never done the high jump before in their life, for example, won the high jump, and many of our students who were viscerally afraid to sign up, performed really well and I hope, felt accomplished. They certainly deserved to.

Peace House runner Haikeli who ended up winning her age group in her race, the 1500 meter. I was most proud of her this day. I could almost drink the ounzes of self-esteem she gained that day, that moment.

Leaving for the big adventure in my car...which, if you've been reading my previous blogs, turned quickly into misadventure :(. Hunter and brother Peter are sporting their best first-day-of-school expressions. Turns out they had reason to be apprehensive!
Hunter, sitting in my "salon" on my porch,after his best haircut yet. Thanks to Anne for the professional haircutting kit. My salon business is out the roof now. Kudos nyingi to Pamela Levine, fellow PCV haircutter extraordinaire, who really taught me everything I know today in regards to the art of cutting hair. And it is an art.
Hunter always complains that I post too many embarassing pictures of him on my blog. I don't know what he's talking about. Anyway, these are his latest spider bites. Yes, you can say it: GROSS. Welcome to Africa living. You never know what's inside the mosquito net as you sleep.
Hunter and my co-worker from last year, Boniface, teaming up for a mean match of 3-legged race at a Rotary event last month. Peter Luis, wherever you are, that shirt is brilliant! Thanks again for your solid consulting. Keep up the good work.